So I went on a first date with a girl last night. We went to a Weezer concert at the fair, then hung out at the fair for a while, then went to eat somewhere. I felt like it went really well. How long should I wait before asking her on a second date? Is asking her to go out tomorrow night too soon? Also, I was thinking about just going to dinner. Or should I think of something else to do also?
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Ask her out asap! I am super independent and most certainly not needy, but it frustrates me when guys play these weird "waiting" games. I actually just went on a date 2 days ago and haven't heard from the guy since, making me already go crazy and start to lose interest. Let's put it this way - when did YOU decide whether you want to see her again? Most likely right after the date, or maybe even during it. It's the same for girls! We don't need 3 days to know whether we are interested. If a guy contacted me the next day, there is no way I would think of him as needy, unless he texted/called the whole day without me replying or said something completely crazy. So please don't overthink it, just go for it! She probably already has her mind made up, and holding it off for too long can only hurt you. If you say you don't like to play games, then don't. On the flip side, if for whatever reason the girl was to say no, it's better to know now than waste a week or so wondering. Good luck!0