What is going on? No call after great second date.

Anonymous
Hi there and thanks in advance for your replies.

I met this guy online and after exchaning just two emails he phoned and asked to meet. I thought we had a great meeting, he did not take his eyes off me for a moment. Then I did not hear from him for 4 days. Then I sent him an email and he called... we talked about meeting again but did not agree on a specific date. Did not hear again for about a week. Then I emailed again and he phoned same day and asked me out for a second date.

We had our second date 4 days ago. I thought it went well.. he picked me up, we had dinner at a great restaurant, chatting was smooth and we laughed a lot. He did not take his eyes off me again for a second... he touched my arm on the way to the car and he kissed me before we said goodnight.

He emailed ver briefly next day, wishing me good luck on my exam and he talked about shopping clothes for himself. However, he did not mention our meeting the previous night that he had a great time or nothing regarding looking forward to speaking to me or seeing me again... So I emailed back that I had a great time with him. Then he emailed again that he had a great time as well and that we "can" talk again after my exam (which was yesterday). I have not heard anything since...

What do you think? I am concerned that he will disappear now forever...

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OK...so here is more to the story.. I am 17 years younger than him. I cannot believe that he would not be interested... he also said that he did not date for about 5 years due to a list of personal problems (which he shared with me) and that he just started to meet women for the last one year or so. During those 5 years he was depressed.


I understand that I sent the emails first, but he phoned within a few hours every time... to me that shows interest. I did not phone him not once.
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I just don't understand why he flirted and kissed if he wanted nothing.. It is just despicable. He knows I am super busy between a full time job and my studies, have no family etc. How can someone be so heartless to play with someone vulnerable. I told him I am only looking for serious relationship.
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I also do not understand why he would not send a one line email telling me that he thinks we are not a good match. If I meet someone in person and I don't like them, I always do that. Unless the person lied to me (e.g. He is separated although his profile shows he is divorced).

After two dates and a kiss one would think you would get that level of respect.

What is going on? No call after great second date.
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