Hi there and thanks in advance for your replies.
I met this guy online and after exchaning just two emails he phoned and asked to meet. I thought we had a great meeting, he did not take his eyes off me for a moment. Then I did not hear from him for 4 days. Then I sent him an email and he called... we talked about meeting again but did not agree on a specific date. Did not hear again for about a week. Then I emailed again and he phoned same day and asked me out for a second date.
We had our second date 4 days ago. I thought it went well.. he picked me up, we had dinner at a great restaurant, chatting was smooth and we laughed a lot. He did not take his eyes off me again for a second... he touched my arm on the way to the car and he kissed me before we said goodnight.
He emailed ver briefly next day, wishing me good luck on my exam and he talked about shopping clothes for himself. However, he did not mention our meeting the previous night that he had a great time or nothing regarding looking forward to speaking to me or seeing me again... So I emailed back that I had a great time with him. Then he emailed again that he had a great time as well and that we "can" talk again after my exam (which was yesterday). I have not heard anything since...
What do you think? I am concerned that he will disappear now forever...
I understand that I sent the emails first, but he phoned within a few hours every time... to me that shows interest. I did not phone him not once.
After two dates and a kiss one would think you would get that level of respect.
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Okay, I'm going to give you my honest opinion. I'm in your age bracket so I understand the whole online and dating thing. You should have never emailed him. Whatever you do at the beginning sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. Do you really wanna be chasing him for dates? Sorry but I'm not going to sugarcoat it. It's just the way it is. I hate to wait for a phone call, text or an email but the last thing I'd ever want to do is to initiate everything. The man needs to pursue and "hunt"...you may disagree but that's just the way it is. Okay so what do now? Completely let it go! Date others and forget about him. Let him pursue you. If he doesn't come after you, he's not that into you. In the future, remember patience is key. I know I hate waiting too but it's always sweeter when they initiate and they always appreciate you so much more. Otherwise you will always have to chase him...do you really want that?0