Okay so I just went out recently with a girl that I like. We just went out to have some ice cream.
So we sat and talked for a while, I had her laughing. Found out a little more about her, but toward the end of the date nature called. Just happen to mention it to try and excuse myself, but the places were locked. So in the end just walked her to her car, where I gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek and then we went are own ways. Since then I have texted her a couple times and called her once. Not back to back but with spaces in between to give her a chance to answer. Even then she has not even bothered to answer me. I don't know if I am just thinking to much and just not being sure of myself for worrying to much. Then the thing is we see each other every so often, so I don't know what to do when I see her again.
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The problem with these situations is you never really know what's going on with someone at any given time. You go out with someone, from your perspective you think everything is great, you walk away thinking something could come out of it, but judging by the other person's reaction, they didn't seem to feel the same way you do.
A couple of emotions will be attached to such a revelation...confusion, disappointment, anxiety, may be sometimes a little anger. Unless she tells you exactly what her issue is or was, you will never really know. She may have what she thinks is a perfectly legitimate reason
I think it's super rude that she didn't have the decency to at least respond in any kind of way, whether good or bad and quite honestly, unless she's dead, someone she loves is dead, is a deep depression, in a coma, or being held against her will, there's no excuse for it. Being busy does not count. It's bad manners, and as far as I'm concerned, bad character.
What to do the next time you see her? Give her the same courtesy she gave you. The cold shoulder. There's nothing else you 'should' do.1