Had been texting and talking everyday with this girl for about 2 weeks. Went on first date Tuesday night with 3 of her friends and one of mine (she's kind of shy). Date went great and we got some alone time and talked. During the date she even grabbed and held my hand a couple times (she initiated). Next day she text me making plans for a second date and also saying that I was awesome and she felt comfortable around me alone (her words). Her daughter and dad were both sick prior to the date and Thursday (2 days after date) she said that they both had gotten sicker and didn't say she needed space but when I ask could I call she said " I'm at my moms right now" and that was it no reply or update afterward. I sent a text saying hope they get better and to keep her head up. We had been talking everyday leading up to Thursday. Today is Friday and I know this might be premature but she's different and I like her and don't wanna mess things up. Am I reading into it too much? If not, How should I approach this situation? Thanks ladies...
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If they really are that ill , give her some space. Let the sickness run its course, maybe she really needs to help them out.
send positive/reassuring messages "hope all is well" "could I help with your family situation?" etc
maybe ask her to coffee/quick lunch if she has the time. . .
don't expect much for the next few days, if she doesn't reply it ok.
by mid week if your still not getting any responses from her simply ask "you still want to set up a second date?" then you can figure out if she is ignoring you or not.0