Ive been seeing a man since Feb 2012. He owns his own business and sees his children at the weekends, leaving very little time for us. I do understand this, I have children myself. However, its always me trying to find time to see him, them reminding him of the date, chasing it up. He was so keen at the start, and when we are together he adores me and cannot get enough of me, then won't answer texts for 12 hours at a time - CONFUSED.
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He's a busy guy running a business, along with trying to be a good dad to his kids. His business, and his children should be his first priority. How many dates have you went on since meeting him? I would say that if he ever goes 10 days without contacting you...then you should move on. I'm assuming you guys are exclusive by now? If so, how long have you been exclusive? If he goes longer than 10 days with out calling or seeing you,then the next time he calls, simply tell him (calmly) you were looking for a serious relationship. Not a casual friendship when its convenient for him. There is not sense in questioning him about his behavior. You should want a guy who doesn't have to be told how to act.
You're probably thinking 10 days! That's still not good enough! If this is the case, then you decide in your mind how much your're willing to put up with; and do like I said. No complaining, nagging etc. Just wait for him to contact you again, and tell him you are moving on. If he seems shocked...and really upset, and apologizes, and says he will do better, then give him only ONE more chance.1