Hi GUYS (and girls :p) - I'm really looking for some good advice (from guys especially), so I hope you'll take your time to help me out! Thanks :-)!
Ok, so I've just started medical school, and I've met this gorgeous, smart and funny guy. We went on freshman's trip with all the other 'soon-to-be-doctors'.. Alcohol was allowed, and we obviously all got pretty drunk.
I ended up in the boy's shower room with him and a bunch of other people, pretty naked, pretty fun and pretty intimate with just him and me sharing one of the showers. I wanted to kiss him so badly!
But unfortunately, he has a girlfriend - And that sole reason, made me keep my mouth to myself, even though there was nothing in the world, I would rather (not?) have done. Point: I really, really wanted to kiss him!
Well, I know it's not very nice to stand naked with a guy, who has a girlfriend, letting him touch you and stuff, but since we were a lot of people in there, I think it should be his own responsibility, not to do anything stupid... - I was just standing there, you know ;)
But still, I wouldn't want to date a guy, who kissed other girls while having a girlfriend, so I stopped myself from tempting him, to cross THAT line... I hope you follow my way of thinking..
Thing is, this girlfriend of his lives quite far away, at least 3 hours drive. I don't think he sees her more than once a week, they live in different cities. And at least for the next few years, they are going stay that way - faaaaar away from each other. (I live in the same city as him).
My hope is, that their relationship won't last.. I know it's mean, but I really like this guy, and hopefully he'll be mine one day...fingers crossed!
OK, dream on you'll probably say. But I'm just being honest!
My questions are:
- Do you think I acted the right way in the shower? Or would You have kissed him?
- What's the best tactic? Become his friend, be patient and so..
Or fight for him right now? (He's the type girls will throw themselves at, the minute he becomes single. I'd rather just compete with one chick than a whole bunch..)
- How can I gain his attention, make him long for me so bad, there's no chance in hell, he'll stay with his girlfriend? ..Guys, I'm asking for your expert knowledge here :-)
Well, thanks for reading and for all the responses I might get!
Most Helpful Girl
If they have been long distance for three years than he is already cheating on her or there is something there.
If he cheats on you with you than he is getting with other girls to.
Very sticky situation. You say you " wouldn't want to date a guy, who kissed other girls while having a girlfriend" but than say "I know it's mean, but I really like this guy, and hopefully he'll be mine one day...fingers crossed!"
You have to be careful because if he cheatson her with you than you date you know he will cheat on you?
Than we;ll be hearing about how he cheated on you.
Screw the drama.
Find a player and charm your way into his heart. That would be less messy2