Me and a guy I had class with a few years back were catching up on Facebook. It was the first time we'd talked normally in a LONG time. Turns out we had some things in common so I gave him my number, he gave me his and he texted me a couple days later. We were texting pretty much all day (or at least when we could) during this time up until about 2 days ago. I haven't heard from him in 2 days and I was the last person to send a text.
He was saying things like he didn't want to go to sleep (after being super tired) because then he wouldn't be able to text me. And saying he wanted to see me soon (Yet he's not trying to make plans with me which I noticed, and am throwing out there as a second question.)
So what's his deal? I liked him initially when we had class together all those years ago but I was his second choice then. Oh god, I'm still his second choice huh?
Originally my question was is his "disappearance" some kind of game he's playing? But really I'd just like help figuring out his behavior overall!
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Don't sweat it too much. Lay off the texting for a while (since he is too, anyways), maybe a week or two. Then casually start texting and talking to him and if its still the same case then and still tries to avoid hanging out, just forget about him because he probably did too (& definitely screams "second choice" at that point). And even if he was interested in you, he's not interested enough to the point where he wants to go out of his way and hang out with you. Not worth your time.1