Guys have you ever gone out on a date with an attractive, funny, confident woman - but passed on a second date with her?
As 'wanky' as this sounds, I believe that I'm not 'ugly', I'm 5'8 with a pretty face and long brown hair and D cup. I have a career and I'm very motivated and able to talk to anyone about anything without pretension. I'm just wondering why a guy I dated (he's 30 I'm 25) didn't call me back? I did drop the "F" bomb a few times when we discussed politics in jest - (i.e not AT him but about some silly politicians) - could that be a deal breaker?
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I don't think the "F" bomb is a deal-breaker. That just shows me that a girl isn't pretentious or fake.
Other than that, I have no idea based on the facts you stated.
Attractive --> plus.
Funny --> indifferent.
Good sense of humor --> plus.
Not insecure --> plus.
Comfortable --> plus.
Confident --> (indifferent, and potentially negative, depending what extent her definition of "confident" overlaps with what most men would consider "full of herself" or "egotistical" or "self-centered") (not saying that that's how you are, but I am saying that: "perception = reality.")
A little insecurity and confidence in a woman is cute, and sometimes attractive. Too much, of either, is a turn-off.
If it was for some other reason, no guy can tell you because we just don't have enough facts.0