I went on a date (dinner) with this guy (met him through a friend) and it was great - lots of laughing and not a single awkward moment! The guy even prolonged the date from just dinner to going for a walk and then going to see a movie. He even offered to drive me home (I live 40 min away) and kissed me goodnight. During the date he kept mentioning our next date several times. When I got home he texted me saying he had a good time. He texted me again the next morning saying that we have to get together again. We got together for the second time 4 days later - he invited me over for a movie at his place. As predicted we didn't watch a movie: a lot of heavy half naked make outs but no sex (I told him I was on my period). He gave me a neck massage, and we talked about all sorts of things/laughed. He told me all sorts of things (i.e. told me he was a virgin until 25). The next morning he had to catch a flight to the states for business - he told me he was going to be away for one week and that he will call me to make plans as soon as he returns. He has been back home for 2 days (we have mutual friends so I know he's back) but I still haven't received a text/call from him...
I messaged him on Facebook saying: "how's it going?"...he saw the message but did not respond
I am just wondering: Is he just not interested? Why would a guy put all this effort and then randomly disappear?
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Impossible to guess...he might just be extremely busy, might be having phone issues (unlikely but possible) or a million other reasons. Give it more than two days, and in the meantime don't send him a ton of texts or you might seem too obnoxious which can be a turn off when it comes to the whole game of guy-girl stuff...pursuing a girl...etc.
Bottom line is it's early and I wouldn't worry too much about it. Apparently he's been traveling across the world so cut him some slack and give it a week or so.0