so we kind of on and off casually dated. he had still been in touch at least once a week with me but we had not seen each other, got busy with school.
recently we just met up. he had suggested it before and then there was a convenient day for both of us so we got together for coffee. we kissed a lot, spent a lot of time talking, he held my hand and my stuff. said he missed me and is glad to see me again. talked about getting together again several times. this was a few days ago. since then he texted me once and I texted him once.
the bottom line is...we are not in a serious relationship, we are both busy with our own lives, he knows I am there. as long as he talks to me at least weekly, should I assume we are good?
i was hoping he would be in contact a little more. but I think he knows I am there, and I know he is there. it makes me a little sad, because I am pretty much in love with him. but this is how it has to be and I know it.
what should I think?
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I can totally relate to this situation, "casually" seeing a guy. I've been asking myself the same question and I think it might be the case, once a guy thinks he has you, he tries a little less than before. The bottom line is, it's still better when he stays in touch with you, it means he thinks of you right?
My crush sometimes just sends me a message with a link to an internet joke he thinks I'll laugh at or just asks me what's up, and I think it's still better than nothing. I'm kinda thinking about him all the time, and I do have a lot of stuff to keep me distracted, but I'd still prefer to be with him. He is obviously able to enjoy time with his friends (sporting etc) better than me, which I see from the pics he sends me. I guess guys are like that, they don't obsess about girls as much as the other way around.
Sorry for not giving you much advice, but at least you know you're not the only one. It made me feel better to know that I'm not crazy when I miss my crush so much ;) I'll just try to keep myself busy, don't overload him with texts and hope he likes me and thinks of me.
Best of my luck to you! I wish you guys will be happy together :)0