Simple question for all the women out there... On the first date, what is the absolute first thing you pay attention too (whether it's from the start to the end of the date) which will determine not only a second date but that this is a guy worth pursuing or having him pursue you...In other words would like to be in relationship with him.
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The first thing I notice is if he greets me with a smile; if he's happy to see me. After that it purely depends on how he makes me feel, if I feel the conversation is flowing and I have some kind of connection and chemistry with him . I suppose it would be nice to see that he's made some sort of an effort with what he's wearing ie. not scruffy. I say this because I always make an effort for the guy I'm going on a date with. I like it when the guy smells good. In order for me to want to see him again, there would have be lots of banter and laughing. I love it when you begin to feel familiar with the person, like you've known them for a long time. That comes about when the guy is super chatty and open usually. Pay hera a sincere compliment if things are going well- you will sense when it's right. At the end of the date, it would be nice to ask immediately ask when you could see her again. It's reassuring, and would draw a girl in more, but you need to do it in a cheeky way, not a creepy intense way!2