I was just wondering, if guys get intimidated by it,
i'm a musician and my ex told me it made him jealous since I ended up in a really good band while he struggled playing in two. And realized I was getting good fast, and he kept thinking that I was going to leave him for another.
do many guys get jealous or intimidated about dating female musicians?
is it a turn off?
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I'd love dating a woman who's a musician or a singer :-D I'd love listening to her play or singing all the while :-)
Between you and your ex however, it's not about being a musician but about being in the same profession and the woman rising up faster. It's a common ego issue that one would find between any couple in any profession while they are in the same profession.
Also insecurity played it's part out here when he began thinking that 'you were going to leave him for another guy' cause you were getting good. He equated that with his 'worthlessness' (or so he thought so about himself).0