So, I'm kicking it with this woman I've known for awhile, its casual. One day she lets me know she met someone new and that he's making special effort to court her. She also indicates that she wants to get married, and its not going to happen with us. Cool! However it pisses me off that she can't still maintain a friendship with me while dating the new guy, I thought we were friends? What's that all about?
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it's because she likes you as more than a friend so she is scared it will interfere with her relationship. it's hard for youto understand if you don't have feelings for her but I can.
i dated a guy and we don't really have a future together and I am still talking to him. we see each other, we make out and kiss and stuff, hold hands, but I don't know if it will go somewhere serious, and deep down I want it to really badly. I know that if I was going to get serious with someone else I would have to distance myself from him because I have strong feelings for him and it would be hard for me to love someone else when my heart goes out to him.
hope that cleared it up. don't take it personally. she just really likes you a lot and probably can't deal with the emotions, she knows you won't give her commitment and to move on and be happy with someone else she has to focus on him and cut you out so her heart stops pining for someone she will never have.
i will say that you may have a chance to be with her for real if you commit to her. but if you don't want to, you should be a good friend and set her free for her own good.0