i literally do not know what to do.. there is this one guy . we dated he is like the most good looking guy at my school. so we dated but I didn't know that he wanted to FWB. and once I didn't give him what he wanted he left.. but a year past and he tries to get with me again. of course I fell for him again.but I did do stuff with him more then a little too.. soooo.. I want to tell him how I feel about him ...but I know that he only likes me a friends with benefits type girl..
MY question is should I tell him how I feel about him.?
and just let him kno? or no... I don't knooooo ughhh.
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He sounds like a scumbag. He all ready used you, took advantage of your genuine desire for love/companionship just so that he could have a designated booty call. You shouldn't give him the pleasure of pleasuring himself using you as his toy again in my opinion. Then again, sex is fun, and there is such thing as casual sex, and if you're okay with that then go for it but by the sound of it you're not.
Even if you "let him know", and he decides to go with you, he'll just be conning you I'd bet. Best case scenario - he says "okay lets engage in a serious relationship" (obviously not like that cos' who talks like that in real life right) but he's just lying to you, because to him it's still a FWB relationship and he's probably banging other broads as well as you (which he probably has been doing anyway).
By the way you have beautiful hair.1