I don't get it I am trying really hard to look at the positive side of life and have been doing good. but the one thing I truly want more then any thing I can't seem to close the deal is to find some one for me. I want a big family of my own but keep falling flat on my face. I don't lie cheat screw any body I am 35 full time single dad of two. time is running out if I don't have my big family by 40 I don't feel ill survive it. I know I have two kids but I REALLY want more. I have tried the ONLINE dating thing it has not worked and were I live I have no friends to introduce me to any one. there no organizations to get involved with that I have a intrust in that kind out what else can I do.
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don't ever think that time is running out.
I am engaged , but I dated an older guy once, 32-33 ish. I believe my maturity level maybe be older than my age..but anyways
it is never like that. you never know when you will meet that person you're meant to be with.
take this time to mentally prepare yourself for what it will be like for yourself and your children, this second time around.
I want to make sure you dont' feel unnecessarily anxious, by thinking that there's a time limit, that's only making things worst for you.
I honestly never tried online dating. For myself I liked being in person and met a few guys at work who were interested in dating me.
I definitely think the social aspect of your life needs transformation. sometimes you yourself have to get out there.
Myself, usually I am shy and withdrawn but I actively seek people out to talk to at one of my jobs, but I also have my own business and in an athletic group. and I go to church. so , my social circles are intense right now.
I think that for yourself, if you can increase the chances you can mingle with people, you're going to increase you chances. this introduces you to a plethora of individuals to date/ see/ talk to. of course, also to make friends. there are clubs, there are organizations, there's church, there's the bar, athletic groups, work, friends at work, the coffee shop etc. there ARE people, there are places. and once you get out of your comfort zone ( like I did) you'll be much better at finding someone. good luck! hope this helped.0