Hi! I met this cute guy who works at my building and it seems like we have a lot in common from the few times we've talked. I know he's single (I just asked one day) and in the past he even suggested we get together and do an activity that we're both interested in. So after not planning anything specific and just running into each other and making small talk, I decided to bite the bullet and ask him out. He said yes, and when I was about to pick out specifics (date, time, place), he just said he'd give me a call. It's been almost a week and no call yet. I'm pretty surprised since, like I said, he brought up without me prompting it that we should get together, so he seemed interested, and to say yes and not call is just weird. Some of my guy friends suggested I give him some space so I haven't seen him all week (avoided going to his part of the building). What gives? Should I just take it as a sign of no interest? If I do see him again, should I say anything?
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Yes, take it as he was not interested, and if you see him, just be polite and say hi, act as if nothing was said about a date until he appraoches you about it, this will show him that you were not that bothered about it and can move on from it, but he will if he is interested have to approach you and ask you out again or ask when he can call, this is where you tell him you were expecting him to arrange something before now and mention that you have another date for this week but next week is clear, this will really get his engine pumping in the risk of losing you to someone else because he couldn't find the balls to call, good luck,x0