I am so devasted. I was dating this guy for two months. Everything seemed picture perfect. We saw each other once/week. When the hurricane happened, we ended up spending a whole week together. I met most of his close friends and during that week he asked me to be exclusive. I left for texas the next day for a week. Okay...this is the part where I'm not proud of. I have been keeping a "fake" online profile on the websight that I know he has a profile. He has no idea it's me but he contacted my "fake" profile 2 weeks ago. This was before we were exclusive so I didn't think much of it. But today I checked my fake profile email and he said "I can take a hint... no response :( good luck!" I can't believe he's still trying to contact other women. We have been exclusive for less than a week and it was all his idea. I don't even know if I can bring this up to him when I break up with him because he will think I'm psycho. Please help. Should I just ignore his phone calls? Should I answer his email with my fake profile. I'm so devasted this is worst than the hurricane!
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It's simple, there's no reason to have or keep a profile on a dating site unless you are looking to date. Okay, I get you can have one still up after you've gotten with someone, but it shouldn't show any signs of recent activity. I don't buy the "keeping options reserved" practice, it implies you expect the relationship to fail.
You'll either have to confront him about this, or let it simmer in you. Then, you'll likely catch him in the act.
I used to think women who keep fake profiles were being kinda sleazy, but lately, it seems so many men love cheating on their women, I'm beginning to understand their reasons.2