Okay so my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now. We're happy and everything seems fine. I saw him not yesterday but the night before.
So I text him the next day since it was his day off and said hey I got off early if you wanted to hangout. Since he had mentioned hanging out later that day. Heard nothing. He went to see a movie with a friend at one and his friend is a big drinker so I know he probably got stuck drinking with him etc. So I text him like 8 hrs later and asked how the movie was and nothing.
Then nothing all day today (which is normal since he works) but I know he's off of work for sure right now and he hasn't said anything to me. That and he actually takes the train to work so there is that whole time as well. I don't know what to do. It's not like we're in hs I'm 21 and he's 25 so. Help me out here!
Its never happened before!
Update: ha ha so him ignoring me was his breaking up with me tactic. How immature. Because I wouldn't sleep with him yet. He's with another girl he works with who has a boyfriend. Nice LOL glad I didn't get to far in the relationship!
Ok, Well if he really liked you he would have called you or texted you. But, remember its been two months that y'all have been in a so called relationship. I'm sorry you are going through this, but he might be playing the field. It's hard to say, but two days no texting or calling is just to long if you have a relationship with someone. If he respected you then, he would have called you or texted you to tell you he was OK or something. Now, you have to see where you need to take the relationship from here. He could be playing the field... Sorry, honesty is the best..
maybe he is in trouble and he doesn't wanna tell you. maybe he died which I hope didn't happen. something coul have happened. wait a little while and maybe contact his parents to check if everything is fine.
He hasn't texted you in 2 days?!? He's probably banging chicks left and right then...maybe even having orgies with all the animals on the train. I wouldn't be too worried though, he'll probably call you soon to join him.
It's definitely a d*** move, but this just happened to me lol, with my friend with benefits. We have a pretty solid "relationship," which isn't really a relationship because neither of us are emotionally available. Since it's not serious, I let it go and sulked for a long time. We were both out of town the weekend after, so we didn't text or anything. I finally swallowed my pride and texted him on my way home: "So I've gotten over my disgruntlement at being ignored. How's Ohio this time of year?"
He replied within ten minutes (usually it takes him about an hour) with five texts lol, apologising and telling me about how miserable he was in Ohio and asking how I was...apparently he just forgot to reply lol. And now we're back to normal. It happens, I guess.