Okay so I've been seeing this Cancer woman for the past little while. And everything was going great... I don't really believe in this horoscope stuff, but after spending time with her, I DO. Why you ask, well I'm a pisces, and she's a cancer, and let me just say that the way we are explained while dating/inlove, is exactly how we act for one another, its crazy! anyways, let me get to my question.
So I've been dating her for a while now, going out, spending time with her, dinner/movies/coffee/w.e you name it I'm doing it for her. Anyways we Haven't had any intimate connection yet, and I'm not really trying to rush that. But yesturday she just like out of no were said she can't do this. And she hasn't given me a real reason, I don't get it... Like everything was perfect, and I went to yoga class with her yesturday, and right after yoga she was like I can't do this, I don't get it, I didn't flirt/hit on any other females in there, and my eyes didn't wander to any other females.. Like I don't understand what would have made her just wanna cut me off..?
If you read up about the pisces and cancer relationship, its literally like how it is stated. Can any1 give me some insite on what's going on in her mind?
She says she's attracted to me, she says I'm hilarious, and I'm handsome, like I don't get it. I make lots of money, I'm in my career.. So like what's going on? is she talking to someone else? Like I don't get it, someone help me out here..
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First of all, if your lve life is being guided by horoscopes, you've got more serious problems. Its bullsh*t! If I listened to horoscopes I wouldn't be married to my husband who is my best friend. We're both Virgos and according to horoscopes, we should be a no-no. The funny thing is, I know very few people who people who believe in horoscopes who have great relationships. What makes a relationship tick are two people who mutually agree to make a go at it.
You don't need a horoscope to tell you that sometimes, no matter how much you like someone, they might not be ready for a relationship themselves. They might be going through some personal issues at the moment, or they might simply have commitment issues brought up by some childhood or past experiences.
She's obviously not in a head space that is open for a relationship and that's really all that matters. Perhaps she is talking to someone else or maybe she wasn't as interested as you initially thought. There could be a zillion reasons that she may not even be aware of. Sometimes, it just doesn't pan out. You have to be okay with that sometimes.
I understand how confusing it can be, especially when you think it was going one way and then you get this crazy curve ball. The thing is, you may not have seen it coming, but the signs were already there. I'd advise you to stop looking at those horoscopes and pay attention to each person you meet as an individual. Horoscopes will have you looking for things that aren't really there, just to make what you've read seem right. It's confusing and unnecessary. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you will eventually find one that likes you just as much as you like them.
You're cute. You'll be okay.