Can you trust her?
I am a fairly straight edge, church-y guy and have recently started dating this girl. Her last boyfriend was the total opposite, a cursing weed dealing worldly person. When she was with him she was smoking a joint like every other day, she got a couple tattoos, and was basically the type of person he would like. Now that we have started dating, she's given up drugs, is getting one of those tattoo removed(without me asking or even mentioning I don't like it), has started going to church with me and has even taken the initiative to audition for the church band! (im not really active behind the scenes with the church, so she's taking it a step further than I do!)
Its just strange to me is all. Can I trust her? Or is she really such a submissive kind of gal that she truly wants whatever her partner wants?
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I have a friend just like that. She is so scared of being alone she will become the female version of the guy she is with. She changes what she likes and dislikes and does for fun based on his taste. She has now been married to her husband for 10 years and they seem happy and have a daughter. She has never cheated or done anything against him. I think you can trust her. Whether she will be truly happy never knowing who she is, is a different story.1