So my friends told me that I should talk to one of her guy friends. I was hesitant at first but I decided to take a chance. We exchanged numbers over Facebook and we started texting. We texted from 6 to 11pm. Everything seemed good, he's a funny guy and nice. I ended the convo cause it was getting late. I asked him if he wanted me to text him tomorrow he said sure. Do you think I should text him or what acouple days so he won't think I'm desperate? When should we make a plan to meet in person?
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I suggest this... text him slightly less than he text's you.
And don't EVER ask him how much you should text him, that makes you seem desperate.
Also, it's really EASY to not seem desperate when you actually are NOT desperate.
So text him when you want, but use his reply speed and reply to gauge his interest. If he replies instantly then he likes to text quickly. If is reply takes days, then yours should too.
If his reply is long, then yours should be slightly shorter. If his replies are short, then yours should be short too.
The key is to match his interest levels... that's how you "seem" less desperate.
Hope this helps!