I'm on a dating site, and this past July, a guy messaged me. Turned out we had so much in common and talked for hours on end. We eventually met, and it didn't go as well as I thought. Honestly, it was because his friend was there (long story) and I didn't feel like I could have been myself. After that, though, he texted me and told me how much he missed this girl he loved (they never dated, but she did get married to another guy). So I'm just wondering, 5 or so months later, if it would be OK to text or call him again? And if so, what would I say?
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It's tempting to dig up "missed opportunities" when we're bore or lonely... but I think it's a mistake.
This is like eating those last crumbs of cereal at the bottom of the box just because you're too lazy to buy a new box. And it's only going to make your milk all gross.
The world has an endless supply of single dudes waiting to impress you... you need to give these NEW guys a chance!
But that's just me...