Can a guy and girl go to dinner together without it being a date?

Basically the question. If a guy and girl go to dinner together, is it always a date or at least a huge majority of the time? Or only if the guy pays? I'm referring to a scenario where the guy and girl are friends but not best friends/ very close friends.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • You can still e best friends, especially if the guy isn't paying for you. Once you let him pay, it tends to become a date', and behavior rules change.

    There isn't the same freedom to say wha't s on your mind, and you have to worry about everything you say and how it will be interpreted.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Yes. The motive behind the dinner, not the dinner itself decides if it is a date.

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What Girls Said 4

  • yes, it can.

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  • Yeah but the guy probably will think he's on a date even if you split the bill or pay it yourself.

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  • i go out with guy friends for dinner and its not a date. some have even offered to pay but it's just two friends hanging out. next time he asks you for dinner, you should say "like a date?" and see what he says

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  • It doesn't have to be a date if it's specified beforehand. It's perfectly normal to have a platonic relationship.

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