Me and him have been dating for about 2 months now... started talking alil over 3 months ago. Well he decides to text me and asks if how would I feel if he left for about a month for a job?... Am I being selfcentered as to feel that I don't want him to leave yet? we had plans of him meeting my family, and my father is getting antsy because he don't know the guy that his daughter has been dating for 3 months. we have all these plans and now he is just wanting to up an leave for a job that he don't even know about yet. Am I wrong for feeling this?
Am I being selfcentered... or is there something wrong here?
What Guys Said 0
No guys shared opinions.
What Girls Said 2
Ask him what the job is bout. Did he agree to meet your family or his reaction was like "hmmmmm maybe...ok...".Maybe it's too early for him to meet your family, but if he hasn't a problem meeting them, you should bring him over before he leaves. It is normal for you to feel that way because you must be falling for him and you're not ready to distance yourself from him after a short amount of time.1
- Show AllShow Less
I don't think you're being self-centered. I mean you do say you guys already had plans made out prior and now all of a sudden he wants to leave on a whim for a job? That at all is not very considerate and sounds kind of sketchy on his part. But, in no way do I feel you guys should be meeting each others parents yet. If you feel you're ready than, do you but you guys have only been dating for two months and you say you guys were only talking 3 months before then. Slow down. Pace yourself. No need to jump into a relationship. Even if your parents are "antsy" as you say about meeting your boyfriend, tell them you want to give it sometime. But, unless you're really serious about it, than its up to you to decide.0
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.