So here is some background... I am outgoing yet reclusive. I do theatre, improv, write, draw, sing. I do open mic nights, etc.
I feel like dating takes too much effort and time. There is a guy I was kind of interested in at work recently. I would I'm him at work. We seemed to get along, laugh, and all of that.
Then one day at lunch I noticed him outside, pacing, talking on the phone for 15 minutes. This happens at every lunch break now. I assume he has a girlfriend. I felt kind of disappointed. I stopped talking to him on I'm as much. I'm just a little more indifferent and a little more cold towards him now. Who knows? Maybe I could have liked him. I guess he's a friend at least.
Maybe I'm not girlfriend material.
I currently have blue hair because of my Halloween costume, and though I may be cute, I'm pretty sure guys just call me goof and quirky to put me down in some sort of way. I've noticed guys get distant with me because I don't act like a typical girl. But then later on, they wish they still knew me when I walk away and ignore them for months or years on end.
Right now there is a guy that likes me, but I have never liked him in that way. I feel bad actually. I am pretty moody/combative with him and I don't care how I act around him yet he still hangs around. I guess the people we WANT to like us, never do. That's just how it goes. ;-(
And then again, I feel stupid for posting this question here on GAG because there are so many more important issues going on in the world right now (i.e. hurricane recovery, economy, states petitioning to secede)
Sometimes I ask God why the world is so weird and confusing. I never really get a response. So I just shed a tear and go to sleep.
Any advice based on the glob of information I just spewed? I think none of this will ever make sense. It's just life.
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Hmmm I certainly get your frustration. It can be so hard in the dating world. I could go on how you are pretty, how you are intersting, how I think you bring a lot, but that's probably not what you want to hear lol.
Yeah, lol, there are big problems in this country, but that don't mean your problems are small, but not small to you.
Just don't give up totally, and give into despair. Took me a long time, but I did it, I think you can too.0