So there's this girl, "Ali" who was super in love with my boyfriend, "David" before he and I started dating, 2.5 years ago. They were good friends I guess but she was pretty obsessive about him and he told her he didn't want to date her. So he and I started dating and she was pissed at me naturally but whatever.
1.5 years go by, and David and I break up. It wasn't working at the time and we needed space. He continues to be friends with Ali, talks to her sometimes and stuff. After a few months we got back together, and slowly made it official again.
We recently put in back on Facebook (we don't care much about Facebook but it's something people look at). I just now realized that David hid it from Ali and a few others who don't like me all that much (mostly girls). I asked him about it and he said they're meddlers and would just annoy him. Fine, I get that...kinda annoying but doesn't really matter.
So this weekend David and I went to his cabin to get away because we've been really busy and haven't had much time together lately. We're driving and I'm holding his phone for him, and I see Ali wrote on his wall, saying "I hope you don't get too tired working all weekend! Let's Skype next weekend?" Naturally I was like..."Um...David you're not working, you're with me..."
He doesn't want her to know we're dating because he doesn't want her to meddle and say it's a bad idea because we broke up before...blah blah and stuff like that. Yeah I agree she's annoying like that, but it's still weird I think.
I really want to write on his wall, "Had such a great weekend with you at the cabin! <3" So she can see it and be upset. Sort of immature, but she was not at all nice to me when we started dating the first time. And why can she write on his wall and I can't? haha. What do you guys think? Should I just leave it, or is this weird?
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You are one gullible girl.1