Racial comments from my sister directed at my white boyfriend?
i am black let me point that out.
anyway I don't even know how to type this cause I really don't know where to start. My sister is trying to knock...
The sad part is that comments like these are slowly eating away at my sub-conscious. it makes me think, whyy is he with me? Is it a black fetish? will he change? am I an experiment? if so many people say these things is it true. I know he is not but everyday :(
i just wanna leave
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Where is she even getting those wild ideas from? White men don't shower? I shower every morning, and sometimes I also shower in the evening.
Also, there are paintings depicting ass play in ancient civilizations such as Rome. I'm pretty sure they have NOTHING to do with whites now.
It's very evident the most prevalent source of HIV spreading in the United States is the homosexual male community on the west coast. AIDS even had a different name at first - it was termed "GRID" - Gay Related Immune Deficiency. It is still more concentrated in the homosexual male community today. Does she realize that homosexuality exists in all races, not just whites?
I am completely in awe that someone would even think what your sister said. I know she's family, and I really don't want to offend here, but you should probably avoid your sister some. She's going to try and tear down what seems like a perfectly healthy relationship. Your happiness is what's most important, and sometimes that requires walling off family.
What Guys Said 4
Intelligent woman? L-O-L. I beg to differ. All I hear is "I'm jealous.". She's either jealous of white people for not being black and lashing out at them or she's jealous of you for having a white boyfriend. Since when are whites stereotyped to not shower? I do believe that white people could have created AIDS and administered it to Africans in experiments though. Your sister is just bitter. She has problems. I wouldn't take anything she says seriously, lol.
Your sister is just jealous, I think.
I think she is envious of your relationship, and wants to ruin it.
Don't let her racism get you down. After all, it's not like white people ever let white people racism get them down. (We just dismissed it as the rantings of a lunatic, but we didn't get upset about it.)
If your sister has to date married men to get her rocks off, then that's her business. But I'd say she'd kill for a guy who loved her and who wasn't married, no matter what the skin color he was.
About the worst you'd encounter dating white men (at least, that's specific to them) is that there's a number of them for whom "sex with a black woman" is a bucket list item, so you've got to watch out for that, but it doesn't sound like that's an issue in your situation.
I'm not going to dignify the rest of that crap with a retort, and neither should you.
However, you know she's only saying these things to hurt you and to help her feel better about herself, so don't get so upset. At least you've got someone who loves you for you, and isn't just using you for sex on the side because he's a douchebag who's bored with his wife.
What Girls Said 2
Yea my mom tried telling me stuff when I was with my ex (whom is white). I tried to prove her wrong and show her that all men are not alike and all white guys aren't sick and nasty. Unfortunately, my ex proved her. Right... he was sick and nasty. I'm not gonna tell you that this isn't true unless I actually experienced it myself. We all know, by common sense, that stereotypes are wrong and you can't judge a book from its cover. To me it sounds like your sis is jealous... maybe she's dating no-gooders and your relationship probably looks like a fairytale from her view.
Don't listen to your sister. If anyone is sick, it's her. Don't let her break you down. Be happy with what you have it seems like he cares about you and keep your toxic sister away from your relationship. =)
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