Wondering what people think on this topic.
Of course the girl is legal.
Voice your opinions.
Most Helpful Girl
i think it is a very large age gap. I personally would not be okay with it for myself.
I dated a man 12 years older and that is a lot, but it still was okay to me because he was still a kid when I was born and he wasn't so old that we couldn't relate to each other or felt like we were parent/kid (although sometimes the age thing will hit you in the face).
but, 20 years older is a LOT he is almost like your parent. I think there will be many obstacles in the way. but, if you are both legal, and smart, and know what you are getting into, go ahead. only you know if it is real or not and it can be, there are obstacles in every relationship. once a guy is 20 years older he is more like a parent. but, everyone has different needs in a relationship. if you are confident in your choice don't let others bring you down.
people will hate on any couple who is more than 7-8 years apart, sometimes even less! they can't understand your relationship. tread very carefully and be prepared for the haters but don't let it bring you down if you know you are happy together.0