I have a colleague and we have been flirting a lot lately: a lot of teasing, laughing, we email each other for work reasons but we end up sending each other a few more emails with silly jokes and he calls me cutie, sends me kisses etc..in those emails. When we see each other again after those emails he blushes and looks excited or tense. On a few occasions, when we were laughing and joking, he said to me " I like you so much", which I considered to be a joke at the beginning, but made me suspect afterward.
All of a sudden, He sends me a cold email about work where he has moved back from kisses to regards, and when I see him , he behaves colder than usual. How can I know if he has turned disinterested all of a sudden or is playing it cool?
Help me please!
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He likes you and accidentally let it slip out, so now he is trying to make up for it by being hard to get. I hate these games myself, but end up playing hard to get sometimes as kinda a "C.Y.A." type thing. Plus girls that are otherwise head over heels for a guy all of sudden disappear a lot when a guy chases back or confesses to liking a girl. What is a guy to do? He is probably confused as to what to do because he doesn't want to come off as overly interested but doesn't want to come off disinterested either, both of which make women walk away.0