My boyfriend broke up with me this last week.. We hadn't been dating long (just a little over a month). He said he liked me, but I just wasn't the "the one" and that he doesn't want to become emotionally invested in someone who he doesn't think is the one...
So anywho, it has been almost a week and I've already been out to meet new people. I feel bad though.. I'm honestly still pretty upset from the loss and it probably isn't quite right to start a full relationship, but maybe just to date around?
He was an amazing guy, but he had some intense quwarks that in the long run I couldn't have dealt with. No fruits, veges, alcohol, coffee, no saying I miss you, doesn't like perfume, doesn't wear cologne, doesn't like lace material etc.
Anywho, I just don't want to run into him when I am with a new guy... would that totally give him the wrong idea? He did break up with me...
- No, he broke up with you so it's okay to move onVote A
- Yes, it's still too soon even if he broke up with youVote B
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Honestly who cares? This guy dumped you, so what can he really say about you meeting other people? Good for you for trying to move on. I dated a guy who was really picky, about stupid things like me drinking chocolate milk, and other things that shouldn't be important things in a relationship.
You should be happy, and if going out and meeting people helps to heal the pain then I think you shouldn't feel bad.
He said you weren't the one and if that is truly how he feels I don't think he can really blame you for trying to find someone who you are more compatible with.
Running into your ex, well it happens. I have run into mine before, and all you do is play it cool. Act as if things are going well, keep the conversation short and get out of there. Who cares if you ex thinks it's too soon for you. I say good for you for going out there and trying to be happy.
He broke up with you and lost all claims to telling you who you can and cannot see. So if you want to go out, go out. Don't worry about seeing him. If anything he should be worrying that he let you go and now you are able to get out and find someone better! :D