So there's this hot guy I met threw an online dating website (he's actually hot ex: we're both in the top 10 profiles that are checked out for our age out of thousands of locals).. He stated to text me and ask a lot of questions and has been trying to be playful and get to know me days before meeting me and still after meeting me.. This threw me off because most guys my age don't do that and don't really want a relationship even though they claim they do.. Well he really likes to get to know me and after our first date he wanted to take me out the next night too (this is NYC on the weekend guys never want to spend all of their free time with you this fast)! He hasn't tried to do more than kiss and hug also and we spent half the weekend together so he isn't putting on an act just to get with me.. I went onto the online dating website the morning after date one and went to check his profile (he has my number) and I found out that he disabled his profile and took it off the dating site.. I think he did it because he likes me (he was on it for a while ex: he asked me out two years ago but I wasn't over my ex or ready to date back then so I turned him down). Is it normal that he disabled his profile right after meeting me and wants to see me again so soon?
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I think its being very prejudice to put "hot"people into categories or motives, eg, a "player.: Yes it happens alot, but sometimes that is not always the case. Maybe this guy is shy or just simply does not have any luck approaching women, despite his looks. Give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe he's had bad luck with women and along comes this girl that has qualities he is looking for. Since you have seen him and seen that he is real(not a fake profile), just enjoy the time you two spend together. Do I think he might be rushing into things? Yes,he is moving pretty fast, but again maybe he is just eager. BUT I would keep my guard up, get to know him a liitle better to see that his motives are pure.2