I slept with the guy I've been dating on the first night and we've been on three dates since then. He's always the perfect gentleman and pays for everything; I really enjoy his company, and like him a lot...the kicker is that we're not physical at all! Like, not even kissing at this point!
He keeps asking me out, and I keep texting him, so things seem to be going OK; but I don't understand why he would continue to be interested in hanging out but not sleeping with me! I want to spend the night with him again :C I dressed extra seductively last time, attempted to talk him out of his plans later in the evening, but no such luck...I've never had this problem before!
I may or may not have made him insecure on that first night. I wasn't an a**hole, but I'm very comfortable with myself and skills, and I refused to do certain things (like blow him, let him go without a condom), but it was otherwise a good time.
He travels a lot to different places during the week; he's only ever in town for a night or two, so I'm not sure how he could be juggling other girls and "getting it elsewhere."
Thoughts on what's going on here? Thanks.
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Because I think she's awesome and want to continue to be with her. We slept together on our first date, and six years on we are still happily married.
Just because there's sex soon doesn't mean a guy hates the woman lol. Just means there's strong sexual chemistry, which CAN, I repeat, CAN COEXIST with the guy still liking a girl for more than sex.1