My boyfriend doesn't like to french kiss?

[ThunderKathryn]

I got him to try it one time. It was nice, but it was kinda amateur. he didn't get it into my mouth too well, he just touched my tongue with his. I liked it, but he said it felt weird. is this normal? I will admit that my boyfriend it a little immature, but is this something guys eventually grow out of? (I'm his first girlfriend and his first kiss, but we kiss all the time, and I've talked to him about it, he seems kinda grossed out about it. is that normal?)

GUYS: do you like to french more then just using your lips?

GIRLS: what do you prefer? a guy who likes to french kiss a lot or a guy who thinks it's weird?

[Anonymous]

I LOVE french kissing. My boyfriend, like yours. He's not a fan of it. So, I had to adapt to a new kissing style.

Unfortunately, he idea of a hot make out session doesn't appeal to him..

Perhaps, your boyfriend is still trying to get used to it. Due to it being his first kiss and all.

Does he have a short tongue? - I noticed that SOME guys with short tongues, don't tend to french kiss.. Base on my experience anyway.

[ThunderKathryn]

haha, yeah I know what you mean. I had to adapt too. we've kissed a lot actually, but I'm the only girl that he's ever kissed. I'm not sure if he has a short tongue lol :P

[Anonymous]

You know what, I really think that some people LOVE to french kiss and other people don't do it very much. It's kind of a thing that young folks like to do in public so that other people can watch them.

I kind of think there are people who grow out of french kissing.



Sounds like you might like a slurrrrrpy sort of guy instead.

[martyfellow]

Well, it's an acquired taste, no pun intended, so don't smartmouth him, and don't mouth off to him either. Just ask him to 'keep practicing, there, hot lips.!'

[TheUglyOne]

Not everybody will like it. Just preferences.

He may, or he may not ever grow out of it.

You'll have to decide of that's a deal breaker or not.

[ThunderKathryn]

no, its not a deal breaker. it just got me thinking about it.

[TheUglyOne]

LOL I don't blame you.

For what it's worth, my wife doesn't really like french kissing either and I very love it. But she's an awesome woman who easily more than makes up for it in so many other ways.

[prettymuscle]

what wow are you guys like 12 years old or something geee

[ThunderKathryn]

ouch. my pride

[prettymuscle]

you need a new boyfriend asap. your statement sounds like pre school lol

[ThunderKathryn]

i'm looking for serious advice. if you don't have any then go away.

[prettymuscle]

I am giving you advice. your boyfriend is unmature and you need to dump him. how eles do you want me to put it

[ThunderKathryn]

i don't think that he's immature just cause he doesn't like to french kiss. that doesn't make someone immature.

[prettymuscle]

Deep down you know am right. your only lieing to your self because you feel if you leave him no one will want you and you will be alone.

[ThunderKathryn]

you pulled that out of your butt. I'm not afraid I'll be alone. I'm a very solitary person. besides, I've had guys like me before. even in my relationship, I have guys that like me and have told me so.

[prettymuscle]

Just cause they like you doesn't mean anything. How do you know what there REAL intentions are cause guys around the age 18 to 24 only looking for sex so yea. And one note I speak the true cause after all I am guy :)

[ThunderKathryn]

you're right. it doesn't mean anything. why? because even though they do like me, I'm taken. and not ALL guys around that age only want sex. I think that's a stereotype. just like the stereotype that all girls are terrified of bugs and hate getting dirty.

[prettymuscle]

That stereotype with the bugs and guys don't compare. I mean just find another guy it shouldn't be that hard

[ThunderKathryn]

I don't WANT another guy.

[prettymuscle]

At your current age you will think that, but I promise as time goes on you will leave him. watch and see cause everyone goes threw that stage lol

[ThunderKathryn]

no. I don't think I will leave him, not if I have anything to say about it. and not everyone goes through that stage. I know several people who ended up marrying their high school sweet heart (most are also their first relationships) and have never separated. My parents being one of the couples. please don't downplay the strength of our relationship based on our age.

[prettymuscle]

Well you can't compare your self to other people. I mean you already having problems right now just look at the future. you will live him in time

[ThunderKathryn]

you compared us to other people. you said 'everyone goes threw it'.

besides this isn't a problem. its just something that I'm curious about. 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger' is something very true in relationships. if I left him over something as simple as this then that would just be pathetic.

seems to me you're a bit shallow and close minded. if you would seriously leave someone over something like this then I feel bad for you. good luck finding someone who NEVER gives you problems.

[prettymuscle]

Lol time will tell and we both know the true of the up coming outcome

[ThunderKathryn]

time will definitely prove you wrong

[Anonymous]

that is weird I think guys like to french I know I do and so do all guys I've been with. just using lips gets boring!

[talwar69]

tongue Mmmmm yes I love it ...its okay he's a rookie we all grow out of it

[helloyes]

how are we supposed to french kiss in your mind?

[ThunderKathryn]

it was kinda between both our mouths. I was expecting it to either be in his mouth, or his tongue be in my mouth. it was definitely a french kiss. it was just very different from what I expected.