i met a guy on a night out, both of us were bit drunk and , he gave me HIS number rather than asking for mine, I waited couple of days and texted, he texted back straight away, I haven't heard from him since... should I call him or let him make the next move? does he sound interested?
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Girlfriend, this is a classic guy move from a guy who is not interested. One thing you need to know about guys is that they do not like doing anything that is confrontational. So, if they are really in to you and hot for you, they will ask for your number because they would not risk leaving the ball in your court and having you not call them.
If they are not in to you, they will avoid at all costs having to let you know that while you are sitting in front of them. So, they give you their number because now the work is all yours to establish contact and they may luck out and you will do nothing with it. If they do not luck out, you will try to contact them, they will do something polite like responding, but then they let it drop.
So, the answer is, let it go. He has your number now that you texted him. If he wants you, he will pursue you, trust me. He's not interested so move on to be open to meeting a guy who cannot get enough of you. Oh, and do not do the typical girl blame game. Don't start wondering what you did wrong that he is not calling or wondering if you are not pretty enough, skinny enough, sexy enough or should you have called not texted, etc., etc. Find a guy who is hot for exactly who you are and trust me, he's out there, and you will love the attention he gives you.0