Someone who is trying very hard to stop but every few months slips up when something bad happens? Would you date her? Or would it be too much?
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I've done it, and I've put up with it, but to be honest, that's all it was. I was putting up with it. I wasn't OK with it. I didn't like it. It actually bothered me, quite a lot. Putting up with it is about as nice as I could get. I'd naturally want and encourage her to stop. Depending on how bad she got, and what kind of self harm she engages in, determines if it's too much. Fortunately I don't have to deal with that crap anymore. Not with my current girlfriend. Thank the gods.0