To all the ladies out there who online date or have tried online dating...Would a good first email to send to a girl online consist of: Hey how's your day going so far? Would you like to chat sometime?
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as much as it seems like it should work, I mean the polls say that women think so, but that's only because for some reason women feel the need to appear a certain way to us guys even when we will never meet them, "yes of course we want them to offer a simple nice message like can we have a chat"
truth is the message is clearly saying that your interested (in this context) and for some unknown reason when a woman finds out your interested it goes pear shaped from there.
Apparently we have to engage in some sort of hidden message bullsh*t where we have to make them WORK OUT if we are interested.
Thats bluddy great saying that us guys tend to be bad at it. women lol
if I were you I would say something completely random and interesting, a bit like those stupid funny pictures on Facebook. That way she will click to see better if you are actually as interesting as you make out.
Noone can be obvious with girls even when its a dating site and the entire reason your on it is to find a date lol1