I mean I date a variety of guys and what not but I feel like the ones that are most into me / want to date me / play the least games are the younger ones. I don't mean full younger but I'm 23 and I'm an honest believer that there's a big difference in maturity (case by case...) between males and females, even the same ago or 12 months different.
Boys, 18-25 ish - what attracts you to older women like after the initial physical stuff obviously...
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I've just turned 20. Intelligence is the first big thing. Having big meaningful conversations is a big turn on for me (I'm a nerd what can I say). The next thing is that you are usually the ones that are looking for a relationship. A lot of girls that have just gotten to college have just broken up with their high school boyfriends and want to cut it loose, but you've been through or are further along in college and are more ready to settle down for a serious relationship. Older women also seem less interested in playing games and more to the point about things, which is another big thing with me.
Of course, that is just me. I am sure that a lot of guys the are into older women like them because they think they have more experience in bed which, while sometimes the case, is a terrible reason to be into anyone.
I obviously can't speak for all guys but I know where I stand on older women. A lot of times they are far more mature and know what they want from life which, frankly, is sexy. But simply being older isn't even enough to make me attracted to you. It only makes me more willing to give pursuing you a chance since you are more likely to not only be interested in games.3
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