So before we got together, when we were casually seeing each other, I asked her birthday. Now we have been together for a month, she said she needed to ask me a question.
Her question was, "do you know when my birthday is"
this was all via text by the way
I said, I don't think you have told me. She replied that she did. Normally I save peoples birthdays instantly in my phone and hers was not there. It turns out we were in a movie theater when she told me, so I didn't pull out my phone and save it.
I did remember it was within the first 7 days of May, but that is not good enough for her. She was able to recall my birthday.
She told me that she "bet her love" that I would know her birthday. Now since I didn't know it, she thinks that we do not have a future.
Let me just add that I am 27, and this girl that I am dating is waay too young for me at 21. I am her 2nd boyfriend and I have had 6 or 7 girlfriends in the past. I am assuming she just has no idea what she is doing.
How do the rest of you feel about this? Is she being unfair? Am I wrong for not knowing the birthday?...or shall I say, am I wrong enough to have her break up with me?
And finally, is something I could say or do to try and fix this?
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You need to find a girl a little more mature. That's nuts. I forget my own birthday sometimes & I know you didn't miss it but it's still over the top. No pin the tail on the donkey for you cause I bet your not invited to her birthday party now.0