Been with this guy since January. In the beginning, he and I did cuddle and actually wanted to be around another. Now, we seem to be just roommates.
In my perfect bubble, I want to be able to sit on a couch to cuddle. Even if it leads to more, I am fine with that. Love the random kisses and be able to compliment each other.
It all seems one sided. I might get a compliment once a month. And us cuddling, I have to initiate it. When I lay on him, he doesn't move his arm to make it more comfortable. I can say I am cold, and that does not say anything to him. He recently separated our couch/chase. I originally would sit on the chase, but he never asked me to sit with him. I took it upon myself to start sitting beside him. He would only lay on me to mess with our dog. As of last night, he grabbed his cover and charger and migrated to the chase. I said, "You don't want to sit beside me?" He just said, "I just don't want to sit there anymore." That kind of stung.
The only time we touch is when he wants to be playful and pick on me and to have sex on his time (once a week, in the living room). I still have an adult dress I let him pick out that he has not vocalized any interest in seeing since Thanksgiving.
I am 28 and he is 31, should it be this out of sync? I drive him to and from work everyday and he has no one here in KY. Could he be using me to have a place to live and a ride to work?
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Ok this is prob gonna sting but I just don't think he's that into you. In the beginning he would cuddle w you but now he does not? That shows that in general he has the potential to be an affectionate person just chooses not to do so w you. If he was really feelin you he would wanna be close to you, hold your hand, put his arm around you, cuddle w you, and have sex w you a lot more frequent then once a week. I would bring these concerns up to him and let him know how important this is to you. If you are at all important to him then he will try and change this behavior and if not then you need to leave him cause he just really doesn't give a sh*t about you.0