No, think again.
Why is it wrong for men to demand a woman have ambition, and take care of herself when that's what women demand from men?
Why is that wrong, I mean if women do it?
I thought relationships were about give and take and an equal partnership.
Well then why do men have to pay for every date? Why do so many women get irritated when they have to pay for anything?
Why do so many women want a man to provide for them?
Shouldn't you do your fair share of gaining money?
A woman who was ambitious as much as the man wouldn't expect a handout, shed make her OWN money, I mean wouldn't she?
If women can demand a man to have a job and ambition and pay for dates, why is it wrong for a man to look for the same qualities in women?
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I had the same problem when I was single and trying to find a boyfriend. I was working full time or in school and I had issues finding guys who were kind of like me, who either worked or were in school. I made my own money and wasn't looking for a handout.
My problem was that the only men who would actually approach me were ones who had multiple kids from multiple women, been in jail, were habitual cheaters and were jobless and were not very nice. But I was told I was too picky when I didn't want to date these guys.
All I wanted was a guy who was nice, either had a job or was in school (had ambition), could keep a conversation going and was faithful. But any of the guys I approached like that thought they were too good for me.
I think the problem you are facing is caused because even though you have standards, there are plenty of other people who will give in to what these girls you are meeting want. They will bend over backwards, pay for meals, take abuse, buy them expensive gifts, pay their rent, pay for a car, etc... Meanwhile they just take the other person for granted.
It took me about 8 months of serious looking to find my current boyfriend. It will probably take you a while too, maybe not as long as me, but be prepared to really search to find someone who meets your standards.
The reason it's so easy for others is because their standards are lower and so more people meet those standards (or lack of). But just think of all the crap they have to put up with from the people who are not meeting your standards?1