Damn, seriously, she gets discouraged easily. Always wanting approval/assurance, including anyone she can find. And when she knows she's not good at something, she gets anxious and walks away. Even with compliments, she doesn't take them easily. Holy damn. It's a turn off seriously. :/
Have you ever dated a woman like such? Would you even date that kind of girl? Also, how did you manage to date a girl like that?
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I am a girl with low self esteem, but the difference is, I try to hide it. When I date a guy, I get really insecure, ask my friends if I'm good enough for him, that he might find someone smarter, funnier, prettier, more outgoing,...than me. But the guy will never know how I feel. Fact is, those girls should work on their self esteem first before getting into dating and relationships. I am trying now.
Problem here is: the girl you're talking about shows her insecurity. She needs to realize that she makes people run, which will lead to her feeling more insecure about herself.
What I would do, yourself or ask a friend of hers, is to talk to her about it. Tell her that she needs to find some good things about herself, everybody has positive and negative points, we all do. Because she doesn't accept your compliments, you'll stop giving them, which will make her feel more insecure again. So if she keeps on acting on her insecurities, you'll run. I don't blame you, it's hard work though, getting insecurities out of someone's head.
So just let her know that, if she feels insecure, she should sit down and think rationally about why she feels so insecure. Tell her the things she's good at, tell her you're not just saying it but that it's hard for you to keep pushing that stuff in so the insecurities will go out.0
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