So I've dated two guys in the course of 3 months both have started out amazing! Super sweet to me and were great about talking to me often etc. The minute they don't get what they want (sex) cause I don't go there with a guy unless he is my boyfriend and its at least 1-2 months into the relationship. They find that out and they just stop talking to me. Which really sucks cause I liked these guys a lot, one I actually gave my number to him! It's hard to not start putting up walls. It deff makes you feel like the nice compliments etc weren't really sincere it was to get some. Yah know what I mean? Am I doing anything wrong? Is this something I should say on date one so there is no confusion?
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Well I believe that men worth considering don't need to be told that on date one, because they know that you'll tell them when you are ready. But yeah, it seems that a lot of guys nowadays take up the sweet talk front to get down with you and quite possibly leave without a word after or maybe even they start acting mean towards you. But I'd say these genuine nice guys are starting to change into the more cocky types of guys out there, because hey those cocky guys seem to always get some while "being nice" strategy seems to not be working at all since women tend to dismiss them or at least so I have heard.0