Do you think having a dating preference is wrong or is it okay?
Why or why not?
There was some sort of article saying that people with dating types are shallow. Do you believe this is true
I believe that it is not shallow. Anyone who calls one shallow for having a type is just upset and is hurting from rejection
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It doesn't have to be, as long as you don't push it. I have certain values I live by and if a girl doesn't respect that, then it's not going to work. But things like hair and eye color can be shallow. I have let go of having a certain 'type' a long time ago, because I realized not every girl is how I think she is when I first see her. I noticed I was judging girls solely based on their looks the first time, but then when I actually got to know them better my opinion changed. They way someone dresses and looks has often little to do with their actual personality. But this is true for all people in general: appearance doesn't necessarily define personality.
So if you don't want to talk with someone because his/her hair is black, then it's shallow. Especially if you have you're 'type' completely predefined with all their characteristics. But if you select based on personality after dating the person, then it's not shallow because you're exploring the possibility if the two of you will work.0