I've been seeing a girl I really like for 2 months, the relationship starting off as a whirlwind, going out on 5-6 dates and always having a really good time.
I rarely fall fast for girls but did in this case, my adoration blinding me to some signs from her that I was chasing her too much. The last time I asked her out she had plans and didn't offer to get together another time.
I backed off and she texted me a few days later, not to get together but essentially saying hi, and I replied. Then a few nights later I sent a text about something that made me think of her and to say hi (was drunk and felt stupid the next day about doing it), and she replied with a nice text right away. I haven't contacted her since (that was a week ago) and haven't heard from her either.
Now that I've had some time to think about it, I can see where I chased her too much and made some mistakes, with the last text message possibly pushing her over the edge. I'm beating myself up about potentially messing up what could have been a good situation with a great girl.
Just trying to gauge if I still have a shot to correct the situation?
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I think you're beating yourself up way too much here. This girl is obviously interested in you. When she had plans that last time you asked her out, she was probably expecting you to offer new plans since you've done the pursuing the first 5-6 dates. When she didn't hear from you, she probably thought you were no longer interested so she sent a text just to say "hi" seeing how you'd react.
So stop being so hard on yourself already and don't worry about coming on too strong. : ) You've already had up to 6 dates with the girl...there's no need to back off unless she asks you to!0