So just curious on your guys opinions here. If you go and meet somebody and start going on dates with them, is it okay to go on dates with other people also? The way I think about this is, its okay but kinda rude and disrepectful. If you go on a few dates with somebody and your interested in them, why bother with going out with other people until you see where it goes. Also my other point is, If I'm taking you out, paying for it, driving, investing my time into you then why would I wanna do all this if your gonna go and do the exact same thing tomorrow with another guy? I think its very disrespectful and kinda says that you might be a whore if we end up dating. I'm going on experience of course. Girls who were only going on dates with me before were in a relationship,were decent gfs and faithful. Girls who were seeing other guys while we were going on dates turned out to be whores when we got in relationship. What do you guys think?
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I've tried to do multiple dating. I think the key for me is that my limit is dating them the maximum 3 dates. Whoever I like the best and has succeed in having three wonderful dates would be the person I'd start dating monogamously.
Its hard to bring up poly dating with someone because the other person sometimes does want to think even at the beginning of just dating they are the only ones that you are talking too.
Another key note is to NOT sleep with anyone, and I mean ANYONE when you are dating multiple people.
Dating doesn't mean serious relationship, dating is trying and putting yourself out there. Just because you have multiple dates doesn't mean you are a bad person. You have no obligation to your date other to be polite and courteous.
Also I don't try to find people to just date all at once, sometimes it just happens and I go with it.2