Guys say they don't like fat girls, yet these women are dating and marrying. This question isn't meant to put down anyone so please don't take it that way.I'd just like to know how even though guys say all this stuff, big women apparently aren't having problems. And when I say dating,I don't mean fwb,I mean real girlfriend and even marriage. I'm a little insecure at times but I'd like to know their secret for dating in a look-centric society that tells women we have to be hot like men magazine models to have success with guys.
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Some of these answers are disgusting! There is no "one size fits all" answer for this.. No pun intended.
What I think? Self-confidence, self-worth, and some people aren't so shallow. Looks aren't ALWAYS everything. There ARE people out there that don't always think in terms of how much another person weighs.
Different body types attract different people. I was called attractive when I was overweight, and I am called attractive now.
And don't settle just because you don't have a lot of self-confidence. Don't ever, ever, EVER under any circumstances settle for anything less than you deserve. If someone is worth your time, they will stick around and your weight isn't really going to matter. But at the same time, don't set yourself up with an idea of some "type" and have a picture of how your significant other should look. That would make you just like everybody else. The girl that posted just before me has an INCREDIBLE answer and I think it's one of the most intelligent responses to your post. Nobody wants to be the one someone settled for. Or as she put it, a "consolation prize".
I understand that this answer might be idealistic and unrealistic... But I like to hold on to SOME notion that there are good people in the world who don't have the same ideas as most of the responses to your question.2