What do I do when a friend of mine starts dating the guy that I've liked for a long time? Do I just ignore it, confront her, or what? I'm hurt she did that to me, even though I know I can't date him, I don't wanna feel so upset over it. What can make it better?
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You have every right to feel upset and hurt.
It depends on how close she is to you. If she's just a casual friend, don't tell her anything but don't trust her ever again. Make it a lesson on how to choose your friends. That is if she knew you liked him. If not, then she didn't mean to hurt you.
If she's a very close friend of yours, you need to confront her IF she knew you liked him. Sit her down and let her know what she did to you. Don't cry or seem vulnerable. Be strong, calm and explain yourself to her. Tell her that you thought losing your friendship wasn't that easy for her. Tell her that it's her loss.
As for him, if he liked you and knew you liked him then he's a jerk himself. If that's the case, then he isn't worth your tears or sadness. If not, then he didn't mean to hurt you.
All in all, please feel better soon. Things like this happen in life. Consider it a good lesson to know how to choose your friends and how not to offer your trust to everyone. Your trust and love are valuable things. Only a few deserve them.
Hope this helps. :)0