I really like this guy. I've never had a boyfriend, and I have become the girl that will tell someone if she likes them. So, I left this really cute busboy my number after he called me doll face:) We hung out already once, and he is really sweet, and he told me he was shocked that I've never had a boyfriend, so I know he likes me. He wants to hang out again Friday. My thing is, I love to actually talk to the people I like. I get so bored during school, but I don't want to have to initiate the conversations texting and seem too needy. I already took the first move, I want to give him a chance. But I really want to talk to him. Should I just go ahead and text him? And if so, what do I say? I've already initiated one conversation if it makes any difference. He goes to the gym and gets distracted, so we only texted every 10-15 minutes
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LOL you are way overanalyzing. If you think initiating is clingy and needy and he thinks initiating is clingy and needy, neither one of you will ever talk.
Okay, initiating by itself isn't needy, it's only needy if you have to text all the time, and you get upset when you don't hear back from him right away. Just send a hello/what's up text, and don't worry about it if he doesn't respond right away. Or once a week, give him a call (when you know he's not working of course). None of that is being needy, just being a good girlfriend/boyfriend.0