So I'm talking practically here, not 'in theory'.
Honestly, which guy has a bigger chance of dating you:
A. The obnoxiously flirty, overconfident, mildy attractive guy.
B. The more attractive guy with the great personality but who's terribly shy and passive.
So I guess what I'm saying is, if you are honest, would you probably end up with the one that takes initiative or would you take matters into your own hands and go for the slightly better catch?
- The one that approaches meVote A
- The one that I have to approachVote B
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When I was young and dumb I would have hands down chosen option A, but now I would prob choose option B. I have found the obnoxious, overconfident guys tend to be huge players. It's unfortunate tho cause the obnoxious, overconfident guys are the ones that usually approach me and the sweet shy guys hardly ever make a move. I guess I would like a little bit of both guys. Confident, attractive, sweet and shy. I don't really like guys that are too passive tho and let me walk all over them. That's a big turnoff.0