I think its true, some guys would be out of my league and I think its the same for girls... some might disagree, but I think it makes sense
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In terms of looks, then yes, it applies, but only when the person stated as "out of your league" is too shallow, vain, or materialist. If it's about personalities, it only applies when the two personalities don't mesh. If it's about someone's character, then that's about when someone one person is a genuinely good person, and the other is not. So yes, there are conditions where this is true, however, there are exceptions to every rule, and as far as I'm concerned, I think it's always worth a shot. Sometimes you could be surprised.
Take me for example. I've never been particularly wealthy, but I always got on alright. I'm not particularly handsome, nor am I particularly well built. I'm kind of a bigger guy. Some people see me as a good person, but I have my edge, and some darker moments. Despite all this, I've never had a problem getting a date, and I frequently found myself with women, who most people, myself included, might consider as, "out of my league". The girl I am dating now is like the girl of my dreams only better. A total package.
Maybe I'm the exception to the rules. Maybe not. Though, to me, it does put the rule in question.
My girlfriend also has this friend, who, if I'm being honest, is not particularly good looking. She's not that pretty, she's overweight. She's kinda flaky. Pretty abrasive. However, she's constantly being chased by all kinds of guys. She's single for all of a week, tops. Guys are always obsessed with her, proposing to her, and most of them are real lookers. Any thoughts there?
Really though, while it seems that leagues come into play on occasion, I think that unless the other person is vain or shallow, it's possible that these leagues are self imposed. Even if I'm wrong about all of this, it's worth trying. It's worth taking a shot and asking someone. If you like them that much, it's worth trying. If they're so great, they're worth it. Don't give up and say "they're out of my league." and don't let anyone tell you they are. Just go for it. What's the worst that could happen?3